BREAKING THROUGH THE HASSLE

Hello there, I don't even wanna get myself started on what the hell I been doing all this time and not write anything.


Anyway, today I woke up with a thought and that's how I'm here writing after an eternity.  I'm gonna keep it short and precise.


Have you ever been bullied, harrassed, assaulted, molested, degraded, betrayed, heartbroken, looked down upon or made feel worthless by anyone? And by anyone I mean ANYONE. Friends or Family.


I want you to take out a few moments and go down your memory lane, it definately may not be a moment you wanna recollect or you're proud of, but look into it. Look back at what you've suffered. Feel the pain you've endured. Stare at the wounds that left you scars. Recall those insults and abusive words you have heard and kept quiet for you felt helpless. Think of the hands you thought were to protect you and save you, drowned you into the depths of despair and suffocation. Peek into all of the odds.


All those times you thought you'd never be able to move even an inch forward whilst having such a gigantic load (as a memory) on your chest and everytime it pulled you down with all its might from being positive and you having even the slightest ray of hope- you stood, you struggled, you grew, you flourished.


Whatsoever you've been thorough, you've COME THROUGH. Let me emphasize on the past tense. You made it out of that hell. Just like today, you are standing on your feet, chin up and a smile on your face (might it be fake but you're still a happy man/woman for the curious jealous eyes out there).


Half of us have reached the point of happiness and satisfaction and we are content with the playful rhythm of life. While the other half is in a lowest pit of  depression and bewilderment. Some are truly happy while the others are pretty good actors.


Just like you've the energy and might to pretend being okay in front of the people out there, you'll be okay! Both physically and emotionally one day.


 What's the key? Time. Give yourself the time it needs to heal and come out of all the I've-been-through-this-and-suffered-this bog.


Be an optimist. This isn't the end of YOUR story, it's just a chapter which happens/happened to be not in your favour.


Be confident. You had to face this hardship not by chance but because the Almighty knew you're strong enough to deal with it.

As it's said in the holy Qur'an by the Almighty Allah in chapter 2 verse 286:


 لَا يُكَلِّفُ اللَّهُ نَفْسًا إِلَّا وُسْعَهَا


“ Allah does not burden a soul beyond that it can bear…”


That's comforting enough!


Even if you are STILL in that phase of struggle, keep going. There's no person on this planet with a capability to put you on your knees.

Just. Keep. Going.


Hush the discouraging echoes and pave your own damn way because no one else will. Each one of us has got our own exploratory lives to deal with so trust me when I say, no one cares one bit if you keep crying over the past or move on. It's for YOUR mental peace.


So head up, stay strong and push yourself gently.

(Pretending to be sorry if there are any grammatical errors :p)

And let your hype stay alive,
Take care.
Until next time.

-Amara.